In Virtual Exchange (VE) programs, a truly memorable experience hinges on participants forming authentic connections rather than treating the exchange merely as a curricular obligation. Such bonds naturally arise when learners share common experiences and have the chance to express their values to one another. Consequently, VE designs must go beyond core tasks to embed ample opportunities for shared engagement. 

The IVEProject addresses this by integrating “side‑quests”—supplementary activities that foster relationship building. In the IVEProject these include a recipe book, an art gallery, a pets hall of fame, a world‑music radio station, and culture‑specific quizzes. By engaging with these side‑quests, participants create shared experiences that serve as starting points for discussions about the values that shape their perceptions of each activity. This approach ensures that VE participants move beyond merely posting about a given topic toward genuine intercultural dialogue and forming interpersonal connections with the other participants.